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Some families choose to keep the urn at a cemetery or church. For
some the grief process in easier to deal with if the memorial is at
home or in a familiar place. Many urns will be displayed at the
funeral or burial service. If you plan to keep it at a cemetery make
sure you know the required outside dimensions. In other, words you
can call the cemetery and ask them what size funeral urns they
accept. Even if the urn is buried, most cemeteries will require that
it fit in a container called an urn vault not to be confused with
burial urns. Each state has different rules concerning burial so the
requirements in Virginia will be different from those of New York or
Ohio.
For some the urn will be a temporary memorial until arrangements
can be made for disposition of the cremains. You may choose one that
is lighter or smaller, especially if you must travel a long
distance, for instance from White Plains, NY to Los Angeles, CA or
from Cleveland, OH to Memphis, TN. In that case, wood urns or bronze
urns may be a better choice than marble urns. You may plan to use a
funeral urn primarily for the cremation service or the funeral.
Several types could be used as funeral urns.
If you plan to display the memorial at home or in a glass front
niche, your choice of material becomes more important. You would
like to choose a material that best represents your loved one and
fits the surrounding of the memorial. You may narrow your selection
by considering where you will display the urn. In other words if the
furniture and décor is primarily wood then you may consider a wood
urn. Especially if your loved one enjoyed a specific type of wood or
wood furniture you may find that it gives you a since of warmth.
Very nice funeral urns are available in hardwoods such as Cherry,
Oak, and Maple.
You may find the strength represented by marble is a better
tribute to your loved one, especially if they enjoyed stone work. A
marble memorial may fit very well on a stone mantle. You may have
special memories of a rocky Massachusetts coast line, up state New
York or the Smokey Mountains of Tennessee and North Carolina, which
make a natural stone the right choice for your memorial. It may be
that a Grecian urn is your best choice because of its classic style.
Natural materials such as stone or wood have a distinctive pattern
which makes your cremation urn one of a kind.
Bronze is one of the most durable materials available. You may
take comfort in the strength of a bronze or in the strength of the
memory it represents. If you plan to inter your loved one in a
cemetery bronze may be the best choice for burial urns. You will
want to be sure to have your funeral director check the requirements
for the size. On the other hand a delicate cloisonné vase may be
the best funeral urn to remember your loved one.
Once you have an idea about the type of cremation urn or funeral
urn that would be best, you may want to consider personalizing the
urn. Personalization is possible on most wood, bronze or marble
funeral urns. Usually adding a name or date can be done at a very
reasonable cost. While most can be delivered in 5-6 days, keep in
mind that any personalization will add to the delivery time of the
memorial. top
Cremation Cost
For many people cremation cost is an important factor. While
cremation cost has risen the cremation process can still be
economical. However, you may be surprised to learn that often
families still spend much more than they could. For instance in many
states, there is a cremation society. Today, most of the time, a
cremation society operates just as funeral home. Often the cremation
society makes additional revenue by selling cremation urns 25% to
50% more than you will find here. In most cases, a direct cremation
can be performed for a few hundred dollars. Even so, you might be
surprised to find, the average cost of cremation is well over
$1,000.00. That’s because most families select cremation urns that
cost as much or more than the cremation. By looking carefully, you
will be able to purchase a superior cremation urn for $100’s less
than those sold by cremation societies or funeral homes. top
Cremation
Process
It may be helpful for you to understand the cremation process.
Almost all mortuaries today provide cremation services. However,
even if a mortuary provides cremation services in all likelihood the
actual cremation is done by an outside facility. Since there are
many mortuaries providing cremation services and only a few
crematories the process will take several days and your loved one
will need a container for protection. This does not have to be a
casket, and in fact most people use a container that costs less than
$50.00. In most cases, there will be several days between the time
your loved one is transferred to the funeral home, and the cremation
is performed. This will give you plenty of time to make
arrangements. In most states, the body does not have to be embalmed
prior to cremation. However, if you plan a viewing, to say good bye,
then you will need some preparation of the body. You will need to
make this decision in the first few days. During the cremation
process the containers are consumed with the body. The Cremains and
ash are then usually placed in a plastic liner and put in the ash
urns or cremation urns the families selected. If you provide the
funeral director or cremation society with your memorial urn, they
will place your loved ones Cremains in the urn for you. The general
rule of thumb is to plan for one cubic inch per each pound of
weight. However, if a large casket was consumed with the body
there will be more material. Also for very large people there
is actually less than one cubic inch per pound. There should
be plenty of time to get the cremation urn to your funeral home. Of
course, if you wish to transfer the plastic container from the ash
urn the cremation society or funeral director provided to a memorial
urn, you can do so at any time.
The cremation cost should include cremation services such as
transfer of the body from the place of death, preparation of the
body, cremation container, preparation of the death certificate and
permits, care of the body until cremation, and cremation. The entire
cost of the cremation process can run from $500.00 to $700.00
depending upon your area. So while cremation cost in Maryland or
Virginia may be more than cremation cost in Illinois or Ohio, they
will still only be a few hundred dollars. During the process you
will be asked to make decisions which could raise the cost. You may
be asked if you would like a more formal container which might cost
$2,000.00 or more. You may be asked if you would like to have the
body on display which may cost $2,000.00 more. You may be asked if
you would like an urn which may cost $1,000.00 more. By utilizing a
direct cremation and shopping for discount urns at a site such as
this you should be able to have a very nice memorial with the
cremation for less than $1,000.00. top
We hope that by giving you information and offering high quality
deeply discounted urns we can help ease the burden of an already
stressful time.
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